Ok just for all of you who are not pregnant and are very thin and cute but know a pregnant woman.... DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT HER WEIGHT UNLESS ITS NICE!! Such as "Oh your tummy is so cute". I am getting sooo sick of people saying things to me like "Wow, you sure there aren't twins in there?" or "You sure he's not ready to come out now?" or "You look like you're ready to pop". Its just rude and it hurts peoples feelings especially us prego chicks who are already having a tough time with the weight gain and the body changes. I have had this one person in particular say something rude to me like that everytime I see them. I have a really hard time being around this person without wanting to say something rude back. I'm sure its the hormones and me being oversensitive but what do you expect I'm 29 weeks pregnant! I have only gained about 10-15 pounds so I think I'm doing well so far. Just last week I was with a big group of people and they were all telling me how good I looked and how tiny my belly was so I left there feeling pretty good about myself then I went and saw this person and they said I looked like I was having twins.... completely ruined my day. Brandon tried to make me feel better by telling me I looked great and I was gorgeous and so on but when someone says something like that.... its hard to believe the good over the bad. It took all those wonderful things the other people were saying to me and made it seem like I was being lied to. It was very hurtful and I am still having issues about it today as you can tell! I love my pregnancy body and think that it is a wonderful gift from the Lord but its hard to feel that way when someone tears you down like that. Ok I'm done venting. Here is an updated picture of my beautiful pregnant belly!
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People are stupid. Plus, I looked that big at 4 months so feel more sorry for me. You are a cute prego person. Love it! Wish I could be that cute.
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