Dear Anonymous Commenter

I don't think you read through my post fully.
I am so thankful to have a friend who can look at me and say "Maybe you should try to see things his way." It takes a true friend to help you open up your eyes and see where you might have been wrong. She was very tactful and honest with her words. She truly wants Brandon and I to suceed. I honestly believe that. I may not have done her justice in the post but she is very brilliant and I will continue to take her advice when I need it.

Also, the post was not intended to take ALL responsibility for our arguments. I was merely trying to portray the fact that I had my eyes open to things that I needed to work on. I think admitting you have faults and are to blame as much as the next person is a huge step and I took that step. I can't force Brandon to change. I wouldn't want him to even if I could. But I can change how I go about things and how I make him feel. I saw that I was tearing him down just about every time I opened my mouth and realized I needed to change. I have loved this man since I was a little girl and I need to show him that I do, not make him feel horrible all the time. If I make him happy then I will be happy right? That's what we all want out of this life.... a little happiness!
So basically, my post was me admitting I have flaws {lots} and setting a goal to be a better wife. I hope this has cleared up a few things that were in question.
P.S. No more "Anonymous" commenting. I love getting comments. Just not things from random people. Leave your name people!! lol
Thanks for reading!